Monday, November 10, 2014: Live Tweeting Gotham, Denying Self of Beer and Ice Cream and a Plus-Sized Love Triangle on Judge Judy

MAYBE one day I will actually post a Monday entry on a Monday night. Not tonight. It’s already tomorrow afternoon.

LIVE tweeting is a challenge, especially for a meticulous slowpoke like me (hi, it’s Tuesday): I’m a tippy-tap typer to begin with (I correct via the backspace button, like a lab rat pressing for more crack) and my real-time writing is made all the more slow when time is of the essence, which it certainly is during a one-hour show. I am also compelled to read my tweets out loud to myself before I post them #amwritingandtalkingtomyselfatthesametime which putters me down even more: live-tweeting may be a fast game but this girl still has to be meticulous.

And the heat is on when you live-tweet: it’s all done in real time, as it happens, so your tweet becomes redundant within less than a minute, and since Gotham was quite lively last night, the tweeting storm was as punchingly furious as the episode itself. Despite my lack of speed, I love the involvement: it’s like watching a sport and being a part of it all at the same time.

It’s not just about the tweets I write myself: it’s also very much about what other people are saying, whether it’s trending en masse or not. I think some of the greatest tweets don’t necessarily get insane attention but still add to the landscape of what people are thinking; thus, for me, a huge aspect of this sport of live-tweeting involves watching #gotham refresh on my search feed so I can see what people are saying, hundreds of ideas at a time which I scan feverishly, looking for tweets I might retweet or just favorite (favorite as verb, not adjective). I don’t steal tweets: I don’t want to, I don’t have to. Plus why miss out on the fun of sharing and supporting someone else’s brilliance? That’s part of the fun of Twitter: you’re not alone. My retweets add to the patchwork of my own timeline: I love my retweets in the same way I love my original thoughts because they speak for me. They show anyone looking at my profile who I am because of what I like, not just what I say. Ourselves in thought: that is Twitter.

SOME of the funniest and tightest tweets for me last night featured #YungGotham, offering cogent analysis from a vox populi that is very urban, very smart and very, very funny. And as a gal who will retweet or favorite an incredible, tight tweet with little hesitation, it is a connected experience to read something better than what you would have written yourself and to then be able to use it, giving credit to its creator, as a means of expressing yourself. It’s a concept of “respectful concurring,” if you will: it waters the seedling of the actual thought for the person who expressed it. When a concept, a tweet, goes viral, it’s essentially a resounding chorus of WhoVille residents yopping: “This is what I’m thinking, this speaks for me.” It’s glorious to see: humans agreeing on a particular thought. It is philosophy and democracy in action and it is a beautiful dance to behold.

And that is what I truly love most about Twitter: how its posts create one living, breathing thing, real-time thinking, which is an organism that communicates while it grows, and it grows solely from its input, its ever-expanding data; it continually evolves, it is never static. The 140-character limitation for posts lends to the creation of quick, tight poetry, in clean, gymnastic one-liners. Twitter has restored my faith in humanity because I can find content that is so funny and so real and so insightful. My fellow humans speak their mind and, when their voices fully resonate with me, it makes me feel so much less alone in my own experience.

I’ll do a more proper entry on Gotham itself very soon. Gotham, yung and old, needs its own space: I just love that show and could go on and on. Gorgeous, violent Gotham seduced me with its first commercial, some several months ago during this past summer; I think I may have even drooled. It’s so NYC, so Queens, so steely, dark and divine. But today I am just writing about live-tweeting during Gotham, not the show itself even though it’s one of the only shows I try to watch live, to watch along with Twitter.

I ABSOLUTELY had to indulge in one taped episode of Judge Judy, just one, because I must behave and one half hour of pure fantastic awfulness makes me feel less guilty than a whole hour. Yesterday’s episode involved a rivetingly stubborn woman who beat her husband’s lover: even Judge Judy reprimanded the wife to punish the husband, not the husband’s lover but the wife, in front of us all, refused to accept the screaming truth: some people are so watchably moronic, it is television gold. The icing, or let’s say the Velveeta, on the cake was that each party, husband, wife and lover, were all very tall and quite large. I love characters in action, a love triangle that tips the scale at 900 pounds: there is symmetry to it, a visual sensibility.  The beaten up lover was rewarded the maximum settlement of $5000: justice.  The wife remained belligerent during the exit interview: injustice.  It’s still all fabulous because it’s La Judy.

TONIGHT 11/10/14  I am amazing: instead of inhaling a pint of ice cream, I am on my second can of seltzer for dessert (and some Vanderpump Rules) and we all know how I feel about seltzer, it’s bubbly manna from heaven. My best friend tells me seltzer makes bones brittle: after a pause, I say I’ll take my chances. Bubbles apparently put bubbles in bones, according to her. But I love bubbles, never champagne, only seltzer and beer and I do have to have them on occasion. Tonight I am pretending to be one of those people who have seltzer instead of a full pint of Ice & Vice ice cream for dessert. I have been incredibly good on the ice cream front: only one pint last week and it was the first one I had had in weeks and I only had it (Three Twins’ Mint Confetti) to help me recover from a previous night’s love affair with four cans of Sixpoint’s The Crisp. I am officially too old to manage more than two cans, may the lesson finally be learned.

Today also is my dear friend Cary’s birthday, we’ve known each other since we were tiny, the best kind of friend to have. It is also Sesame Street’s birthday, the 45th anniversary of the first episodes airing. Some of us, Cary and me included, remember this event so well that we readily recall Sesame Street’s pre-debut promotion and being excited to see the first episode. I am dating myself: I was the ultimate consumer for Sesame Street. I was the perfect age for this show that revolutionized aspects of television way beyond the realm of children’s education: at five years old, I ate it up, jumping into that easily accessible and yet magically unattainable world of Muppets who were more real and fully drawn than actual humans. Bert and Ernie, in retrospect certainly are suspicious live-in bachelors, but they are also both sides of me: the furious nerd who always comes in last (and is funny looking) and the squatty clown who always sees the upside (and is equally funny looking). Me and me.

OKAY and this woman who hit this guy with her high heel shoe on the F train? No one deserves to get knocked down but why did she aggravate and bully him? What a nasty person: she pushed and pushed and pushed. Shame on her, I hope she learned something about herself but maybe not, if her friends were egging her on. That’s a tough brutality which cannot be easily changed.

DRITA and Karen back for next season of Mob Wives, on December 3.  Girl, I do not know how much I got to give to the Mob Wives this time around, but I do love me some Drita: fierce Drita Drita, she ain’t no meter maid. And I am curious about Miss Karen, Miss Junior Female Bull, and what she’s been up to. But I wonder how much juice is left, though, in this franchise and I am growing less interested. I have to limit my reality TV: can’t waste too much of my precious time watching the fluffyfluffy.  Mob Wives is the fluffyfluffy.  Vanderpump Rules is the fluffyfluffy.

Gotham is not the fluffyfluffy: I can’t focus too well on anything when I first watch it: Gotham is something I always have to watch twice. I’ll tell you why soon.

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